I'm basically in the same situation as [member=15289]Birdhunter[/member] for different reasons. After all these years of abuse, it's not really the volume of the sound that annoys me, it's the pitch. Some of these newer brushless motors fall into that, but not all. I have a few, both corded and cordless, none of them bother me.
The most obvious corded is the TS60. While it does sound different from the brushed TS55, it's not bad, either in pitch or volume.
The biggest cordless I have is a Makita SCMS. This thing is likely to be the closest to my face as anything with a motor would be, since the stand is so high. It is not bothersome at all.
None of the Makita drills/drivers make bad noises either, but the brushless ones are the sub-compact version, so I don't know about the big ones.
The thing that most people don't like about impact drivers is the hammer mechanism anyway. It's funny how different the various brands sound in this respect too.
I'm holding on to my older CXS, for two reasons. First is because I really like it. The size, weight, and functionality are perfect for my use.
Second, is the battery platform. I prefer to keep that to a minimum. The CXS is the only battery I have, beyond the Makita LXT.
If I was already in the 18v Festool, things might be different. As a shop-only guy, not having to be mobile, I'm sticking with corded for most things. That and being tethered to a CT anyway.