I've rewired three houses and read enough books on the subject (and consulted enough electricians) to know what I'm doing, and, more importantly, know when I encounter something that I don't know what I'm doing with.
I highly recommend Black & Decker's "The Complete Guide to Home Wiring" for its exceptional color photos and diagrams. I recently purchased another similar book by Creative Homeowner called the "Ultimate Guide to Home Wiring." It's a great compliment to the Black and Decker book. It has really great explanations of electricity and how it works. I also recommend the For Pros by Pros "Wiring a House" book. It's a bit more advanced and covers some situations the others don't.
On a separate note, I recommend the book "Wiring Simplified." It's sold at Home Depot stores and is usually found not on the book racks but rather in the electrical department where you find wire nuts, etc. But, be very careful when you buy this book. I see on Amazon that now there is a new edition based on the 2008 electrical code. Home Depot is still usually selling the edition based on the 2005 code, and I even see many Home Depots still selling the edition based on the 2002 code!
Anyway, I highly, highly recommend reading "Wiring Simplified" from cover to cover. It's a relatively small, brief book that will give you a good basic understanding of how houses are currently wired--and why. I can't recommend all of these books enough, but especially "Wiring Simplified."
I'd buy them in this order:
1. Wiring Simplified (read this first)
Note: Here's a link to "Wiring Simplified." There are other similar titles, but this is the one you want. This is the 2008 version (look at the red area at the top of the front cover), which apparently is available quite yet, though you can preorder it. If you need something now, get the edition of this book based on the 2005 code:
http://www.amazon.com/Wiring-Simplified-Based-National-Electrical/dp/0971977933/ref=pd_bbs_sr_1?ie=UTF8&s=books&qid=1203830453&sr=8-1
2. Wiring a House for Pros by Pros (read this second)
3. Creative Homeowner's Ultimate Guide to Home Wiring (read at least the early chapters of this book)
4. Black and Decker's Complete Guide to Home Wiring (you might read only some of this, but it is a superb reference for clear photos and wiring diagrams)