For shaping, I used Saphir 36 and then, starting at Rubin 50, went through the grits to 120. I only used Rubin because I had a lot of it. If I were to pick the perfect abrasive for the task, I'd use Saphir through 80 and then switch to Rubin to get a nice finish.
The first time I tried this, I made a coffee table with mahogany legs and skirt and a limestone top. I started with a big slab of landscaping limestone, rough shaped it with a 4" angle grinder, and finished with the Rotex 150. When I got to Rubin 120, the fossils became evident and it felt quite nice so I stopped. After that, I sealed it with several applications of some Teflon enhanced marble/stone sealer I had left over from a bathroom remodel and I like it. If I wanted a shinier appearance, I'd probably have kept going but it came out like I wanted. We had a couple of tables already from a local craftsman who works in iron and limestone so I wanted it to approximate their look and it does pretty well.
The whole sanding process goes pretty quickly.
Tom