USA Trip Happening!!!

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My girlfriend & I are planning a 'once in a lifetime' USA trip - possibly early(ish) next year, but could be as soon as September/October this year, depending on funds. We've been talking about it for years, but unfortunately her cancer is back (secondary breast cancer, two tumours in her right lung) and is now terminal, so we've decided to get it done while she can (she may have 2-3 years, but it's not guaranteed, so we figured on doing it sooner rather than later). I'm not saying this for any sympathy, and please, no offers to pray for her, I think it's a bit late for that!  [tongue]

The outline plan is:

New York, then (possibly by train) over to San Francisco, Las Vegas (stopping off in Henderson, of course!), and LA.

One of the things we'd really like to do in LA, if possible, is go to a live recording of one of our favourite shows, The Big Bang Theory. It seems from google that tickets for this are done on a lottery basis, but only a few weeks in advance. The show is not recording at the moment, but since the new season starts in September, they must be recording by then!

Does anyone know exactly when the new series starts recording, and have any idea how we could get some tickets in advance (so we could plan the rest of the trip around it date-wise)? I'm going to e-mail the show via the website, but I think that may be more of a lottery than the actual ticket lottery!

If anyone can help, I'd be very grateful.

Jonathan
 
Jesus Johnny I'm really sorry to heat that about your girlfriend!! I hope ye get tickets for the recording of the show. It's a great show and would be class if ye can get to see it!!
 
Got my fingers crossed for you that someone who works in the business (set design?) is a member of the FOG and can help to make your girlfriend's dreams come true. [smile]
 
GarryMartin said:
Got my fingers crossed for you that someone who works in the business (set design?) is a member of the FOG and can help to make your girlfriend's dreams come true. [smile]

Same here; googled around for while to see if I could find a contact to send the post to, but no luck.  I know we have many state-side set builders; maybe Carroll has contacts in high Hollywood places

Best of luck with everything!
 
we took the train from toronto to vancouver when i was a little kid, What little i recall was amazing.

2 years back we did an alaskan cruise, I highly recommend you do that if timing works.

the train system isn't like europe so, you might think about flying.

 
For a country as large and diverse as the U.S., the list of things to see and do could get pretty long. Because you mentioned taking a train, I assume this would be a fairly lengthy trip, because I'm guessing that it would probably take a week to cross the country by train.

One thing I would put higher on the list is to get off the train for a bit and drive through South Dakota. In my opinion, it is one of the most geographically diverse states in the whole country. It has so many different things to see that it would be hard to list them all. That is why it would be better to drive through there, so you can stop off at all the different areas. Some of them are like being on a different planet, including the "giant heads"  [big grin] of Mount Rushmore.

Then of course there is the Grand Canyon. I've only been there once as a kid, so I don't know the best way to see it. When I was 12, we took a month-long cross-country camping trip to the entire Western U.S., so we just pulled off at a single "scenic overlook", and that was about it. (My mom joked that Mario Andretti was driving, and we were on the clock for every stop made.)

In terms of cities to see, I would put Washington DC higher than New York. The number of tourist attractions and places to visit is much higher. You could spend a week in DC and still not see everything.

As a woodworker, as long as you are going to be in California, you may want to stop at the Gamble House (designed by the architects Green&Green). It is interesting to see even if you're not a woodworker. In case you didn't know, the scenes for Dr. Emmet Brown's house in the "Back to the Future" movies were shot at the Gamble House.

Las Vegas is incredible to visit, but you'll realize just how much more there is to see there if you don't even think of it as a gambling town. Simply walking around, day or night, is entertaining in itself. For example, the Bellagio fountains run every 15 minutes at night (every 1/2 hour in day), and sitting on the railing drinking a beer watching them can be very relaxing. Many of the larger hotels also have outrageous exterior attractions to watch too. (some are best seen in the day, and some are best seen at night.)

Of course you could never see everything, but these are some of the tings I would focus on because they are centralized and can see a lot of things within a narrow region or time.
 
Not being a city boy I think that America has some wonderful national parks.  Yosemite and Yellowstone have no equal in the world. Grand Canyon , great smoky and Shenandoah are also good choices. Most can be reached from major cities easily
 
I second Mount Rushmore & Yellowstone.  Growing up in Colorado, there are such great things, if you come in the fall looking at the aspen trees change color is a sight to see.  The Black Canyon of the Gunnison is amazing.  You could go to Mesa Verde and look at the Cliff Dwellings, go to the Four Corners monument, can be in 4 states at once.  Another thing would be going to Niagra Falls.  Another place that is great is Lake Powell in Utah. 

I hope you and your girlfriend can dedicate enough time to truly make it a trip of a lifetime.  There is just so much to see.
 
Johnny, I have great empathy for you and your girlfriend. I lost a wife to metastatic breast cancer in 2005. About ten months before she passed we took a six week trip through the western states and part of British Columbia. She was a real trooper and actually got stronger for the first month. I remember climbing to the top of Multnoma Falls on the Columbia River. All these folks were huffing and puffing and she just roughed her way to the top. I think she got a kick out of surpassing all those "healthy" folks. Even though she knew her condition was terminal she enjoyed the trip more than anything she had ever done in her life.

One word of caution. Like your girlfriend, Debra had tumors in one lung as well, and toward the last two weeks she became uncomfortable at high altitude. Many of the places mentioned are absolutely beautiful but do be aware that it may be difficult for her above eight thousand feet or so. I wish for you the best trip possible and my heart goes out to you.
 
Thanks everyone for your suggestions & kind words. I'm just on my way out to work, but will post more later.
 
Rick Christopherson said:
For a country as large and diverse as the U.S., the list of things to see and do could get pretty long. Because you mentioned taking a train, I assume this would be a fairly lengthy trip, because I'm guessing that it would probably take a week to cross the country by train.

I mentioned that because some friends of ours did it a couple of years ago, and they said it provided a very nice, relaxing break part-way through the trip, with some nice views. I think they went pretty much non-stop from New York to San Francisco, on a sleeper train, and it was around 2 days/3 nights IIRC.

Rick Christopherson said:
One thing I would put higher on the list is to get off the train for a bit and drive through South Dakota. In my opinion, it is one of the most geographically diverse states in the whole country. It has so many different things to see that it would be hard to list them all. That is why it would be better to drive through there, so you can stop off at all the different areas. Some of them are like being on a different planet, including the "giant heads"  [big grin] of Mount Rushmore.

I have also considered driving, but that would take a LOT longer!

Rick Christopherson said:
Then of course there is the Grand Canyon. I've only been there once as a kid, so I don't know the best way to see it. When I was 12, we took a month-long cross-country camping trip to the entire Western U.S., so we just pulled off at a single "scenic overlook", and that was about it. (My mom joked that Mario Andretti was driving, and we were on the clock for every stop made.)

We've got that covered - Grand Canyon tour by helicopter, from Las Vegas!

Rick Christopherson said:
In terms of cities to see, I would put Washington DC higher than New York. The number of tourist attractions and places to visit is much higher. You could spend a week in DC and still not see everything.

TBH I'd not considered Washington, but there are a couple of things there I'd really like to see. I think I'll look into that a bit more.

Rick Christopherson said:
As a woodworker, as long as you are going to be in California, you may want to stop at the Gamble House (designed by the architects Green&Green). It is interesting to see even if you're not a woodworker. In case you didn't know, the scenes for Dr. Emmet Brown's house in the "Back to the Future" movies were shot at the Gamble House.

Interesting, I'll look into that, too.

Rick Christopherson said:
Las Vegas is incredible to visit, but you'll realize just how much more there is to see there if you don't even think of it as a gambling town. Simply walking around, day or night, is entertaining in itself. For example, the Bellagio fountains run every 15 minutes at night (every 1/2 hour in day), and sitting on the railing drinking a beer watching them can be very relaxing. Many of the larger hotels also have outrageous exterior attractions to watch too. (some are best seen in the day, and some are best seen at night.)

TBH I'd always hated the thought of going to vegas, as I've no interest in gambling, but my sister & her boyfriend have been a couple of times & loved it. We'd be going for the attractions rather than the casinos (though we'll probably go in one just to say we've done it!).

Rick Christopherson said:
Of course you could never see everything, but these are some of the tings I would focus on because they are centralized and can see a lot of things within a narrow region or time.

Very true. How much we can see will depend primarily on how long we can stay for, and that depends on how far we can stretch the budget...

Wooden Skye said:
I second Mount Rushmore & Yellowstone.  Growing up in Colorado, there are such great things, if you come in the fall looking at the aspen trees change color is a sight to see.  The Black Canyon of the Gunnison is amazing.  You could go to Mesa Verde and look at the Cliff Dwellings, go to the Four Corners monument, can be in 4 states at once.  Another thing would be going to Niagra Falls.  Another place that is great is Lake Powell in Utah. 

I hope you and your girlfriend can dedicate enough time to truly make it a trip of a lifetime.  There is just so much to see.

Thanks. Kate's just mentioned Yellowstone as being somewhere she'd like to go. I really don't know how we're going to fit everything in!

DaveZ said:
This link seems to have some info on how to score tickets:  http://www.thebigbangbuzz.com/2012/03/how-to-score-taping-tickets-to-big-bang.html  Best of luck! 

Dave, that's fantastic. I'd found the official ticket site, but it just had a blank section under 'upcoming shows'. Now I know why!

greg mann said:
Johnny, I have great empathy for you and your girlfriend. I lost a wife to metastatic breast cancer in 2005. About ten months before she passed we took a six week trip through the western states and part of British Columbia. She was a real trooper and actually got stronger for the first month. I remember climbing to the top of Multnoma Falls on the Columbia River. All these folks were huffing and puffing and she just roughed her way to the top. I think she got a kick out of surpassing all those "healthy" folks. Even though she knew her condition was terminal she enjoyed the trip more than anything she had ever done in her life.

One word of caution. Like your girlfriend, Debra had tumors in one lung as well, and toward the last two weeks she became uncomfortable at high altitude. Many of the places mentioned are absolutely beautiful but do be aware that it may be difficult for her above eight thousand feet or so. I wish for you the best trip possible and my heart goes out to you.

Thanks Greg. Sorry to hear about Debra. Sounds like you had a good trip, with lots of great memories I'm sure.

Appreciate the heads up about altitude, I hadn't thought of that.

On a general note, would I be correct in thinking that all the 'touristy' bits of the US are pretty much wheelchair friendly? She doesn't need it most of the time, but on her bad days she can't walk across the bedroom without help. Having said that, if her current round of chemo is successful in shrinking the tumours back, then she might be good for a couple of months.

What are motels really like? If we do end up hiring a car & driving for some of the trip, that would seem like a good type of place to stay, but over here we only ever see them portrayed on TV as being really seedy dives full of criminals & other types of lowlife scum....
 
jonny round boy said:
What are motels really like? If we do end up hiring a car & driving for some of the trip, that would seem like a good type of place to stay, but over here we only ever see them portrayed on TV as being really seedy dives full of criminals & other types of lowlife scum....

That's only when there is a FOG get together!!  ;D 

In reality there are many, many fine motels around places you would like to go, but prices can be all over the map. If you check the travel sites, like Expedia or Travelocity, you will see ratings. Couple the feedback and factor the pricing in and you can usually come up with a price/quality combo that is decent. Once you have an itinerary folks here that are familiar with a specific area can make recommendations. With all the contributors on this forum I would bet we could cover most of the country for you.
 
jonny round boy said:
What are motels really like? If we do end up hiring a car & driving for some of the trip, that would seem like a good type of place to stay, but over here we only ever see them portrayed on TV as being really seedy dives full of criminals & other types of lowlife scum....

LOL! I never thought about that. No, the motels/hotels are not like TV. I haven't traveled to the UK, but I have spent some time in Germany. The hotels/motels here are generally comparable to similarly ranked hotels that I stayed in while in Germany. Most hotel websites will have pictures showing a typical room and other amenities they have to offer. It is a closely regulated industry, so you won't find anything "seedy".

The hotels will be pretty much what you expect in Europe. For example, the Maritim Rhein-Main is one place I stayed, and it is typical of a good hotel here. Motels are smaller and I am not sure if you have these over there. (It comes from the name motor-hotel and was based on travelers stopping somewhere for the night after a long drive.) They are probably more common in the western tourist areas. They are typically less expensive and limited to 1 or 2 floors. In some cases, room access is straight off the parking lot (hence the name motor-hotel), but some of them have interior corridors.

Like you, I don't find gambling to be very alluring. So when I first was visiting Vegas on business, I had no idea how fun it would be just to walk around. Even without gambling, seeing the inside of some casinos is interesting. For example, the interior of the Lexor (the big pyrimid) hotel/casino is pretty cool. You can't go upstairs without a room key, but I did sneak onto the elevator by following a guest. Because the interior walls are also sloped, and the hallways are open to the courtyard below, the views from up there are really cool. (P.S. many of the Vegas casinos are known for their huge buffets. So don't forget to check some of those out.)

As for handicapped access, virtually everything will be built around easy access. It is dictated by law. So for example, every hotel will be handicap accessible and will even have a certain number of rooms specifically designed for wheelchair access. One thing to consider is looking into how you can get a handicapped parking permit. It is a plastic sign you hang from the mirror which permits you to use the handicapped parking spots that are right in front of any building. If you have one from the UK, I'm guessing it would be honored here too, as long as it has the international symbol on it.
 
Hi Jonathan, You will have a blast in the states. I know what you mean about the whole gambling thing. I went to Vegas in 2000 and did'nt spend a cent gambling even though the hotel we stayed in gave me a $25 free bet!!!!!!!!! I have to say it was great fun just to go and see.
The American people are very friendly and helpfull and you two will have so much fun over there. We went and stayed in Santa monica with friends and it was so much fun.

Was very heartbreaking to read about your girlfriend, and I hope the time that you both have together is amazing.
 
I've traveled across this country and yours several times and can safely say that most of the hotels are going to be fine re: safety. Just use common sense and stay in the outskirts (cheaper) and away from bad parts of town (it'll usually be obvious). Motel 6 and the like are going to give you basic breakfast and a baseline standard of cleanliness in the rooms. Good enough for most people who just want a bed/shower.

Grand Canyon can't be missed. I've been to 40 National Parks here and 6 in Canada. GC is among the most awe-inspiring when you first go there. Yellowstone, though, is my favorite. Some will say Yosemite is better. It's easier to see since you'll be in SF/LA anyway. Yellowstone may be out of the way. No matter what, check the roads before driving because you could have your plans thwarted by snow during certain parts of the year. Hoover Dam may be worth a stop if you like engineering marvels. Near enough to LV to make a stop.
South Dakota is nice, southern Utah is even better. I've been to all the states except for Alaska - Utah and Hawaii are probably the most beautiful. Colorado and California are also up there.

Have fun.
 
If you do make Vegas, stay at Bally's. Reasonably priced and in the middle of the strip.

Tom

 
I would agree that "Motels" can be very questionable. You will have better luck staying at major chains "Hotels" Like Hampton Inn or Marriott Courtyard. Even the Holiday Inn chain is making a comeback as they are requiring their franchises to refurbish their properties.
 
If the motel has an "hourly" rate, you should probably steer clear.

Tom
 
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