Speaking as someone from the UK, where our plugs won’t easily pull out of the wall socket, I have to say I have never once wished they would do so, for safety or any other reason (not that there’s any danger of damaging our plugs - they’re built like tanks). And whenever I’ve been in the US, I’ve always found it incredible just how little effort it takes to make them fall out. It had never occurred to me that anyone would see that as a good thing, as I assumed it was a constant nuisance.
Back to the plug-it problems, is this something that also affects 240v countries, where presumably the amps are lower for any given tool?