Oh, quite to the contrary... This thing is awesome, and it's even bigger than the new ones by half. But they are harder to find.
I worked for Rockler for a year, and Woodcraft for two, and quit retail after 2007.
I think you should go with whatever bench thickness appeals. There's no substitute for a good, heavy bench. One day I'll have time to build a better bench, and when I do it's certainly going to be beefy. Don't chicken out, build the bench you WANT. Just plan with the vise in mind. Mounting a pattern vise is certainly a little more labor intensive, but it's not as hard to do as it looks. Don't be scared off by the thought of the mounting process. There's more wiggle room than you think, and if you're scratch building, there are things you can do to make the process go more smoothly than if you were hogging out of an existing benchtop like I did.
PM if you really want the nuts and bolts of the process. Or google 'mounting an Emmert.' You'll see my name towards the bottom of page 1. One of these days I'll finish writing a more comprehensive article...