Well.. Good Day Andrew...and hallo to the excellent geese!
I have pondered the matter and I concluded that this is an extremely difficult problem and you will have to modify how you use your sink or your expectations.....or both.
What you really want is stainless steel performance in a tasteful looking wooden artefact....hmmmm!
You have a soft substrate, sometimes near boiling water (well, near 100 Deg C) and may from time to time let water sit or get trapped in there.....plus there might be periodic use of chemicals (bleach..whatever...).
And you want food grade.
Before we even get into what may or may not be done....an even greater factor is the natural tendency of wood (especially large tasty chunks) to move, split and crack over time.....sometimes quite a short time….like months not years....and this problem (which I will talk about more later on) should be addressed first and may in fact be the overarching factor in the whole deal here.
This is why people tend to use laminated wood (even if its the same piece, rift sawn, flipped alternately and glued back together)
Lets me deal with the "food grade issue first.
Few coatings are "potable water grade"...even fewer are "direct food contact approved" and while some are "indirect food contact approved" (whatever that means!)... virtually none of these are clear coatings (read on....no-one in the food business wants a clear coat....they all want white....so they don't test or certify the clear…..its not that its worse.)
The actual reason for this limited selection is not that the rest of the coatings are a bunch of toxic mixtures sold by villainous and scheming weasels of weak moral fibre ....its very expensive to get the proper testing done and that "food grade" sector of the market is so small that the manufacturers just don't bother to spend the money......and it gets worse....typically you find that its only colour X and colour Y that is approved....because each pigment that is used must be separately tested (more money!)
The reality is that virtually all modern epoxy or polyurethane coatings (or oil or latex for that matter) are free of bad things (heavy metals etc, went out of favour decades ago) once fully cured....and anyhow you are not gnawing on the coated surface of your sink repetitively for years (at least, I hope not)...so lets you not be overly concerned about that aspect.....you are running water over it and down the drain….so who cares!
Now...your single greatest problem (well, besides, the weather, the wife and the geese) is the periodic use of really hot water.
Epoxies HATE thermal shock (and so will you)....and as epoxies are in fact thermo-plastic resins they will expand very swiftly while the substrate (your cedar) won't when hit with hot hot water...something has to give....and the coating either cracks or delaminates off the surface....then water can get in and your doom is apparent.
Besides which, at higher temps, most epoxies tend to get soft and easy to damage.
There are in fact a few (very few) epoxies that will withstand 100 deg C ...but not, understand......"ambient to 100 deg C in a split second" so be careful when some cheerful chap tells you his stuff is good to 100 deg, no worries. (You should worry yes!)
So much for the temperature issue.
You can have hot but not in a split second...ramp it up gently.
Now for hardness.
Your wood is soft (well, in terms of hardness) and when you wack it with the edge of the cast iron frying pan or the edge of a sharp object as may happen from time to time you may either damage the coating or cause minor delamination (under the coating) which in turn can lead to eventual failure. This may not happen of course....but it may...then what...how do you do a spot repair before it gets wet and gruesome?
Chemicals.
Any harsh scouring chemical is to be avoided, likewise bleaches and strong oxidisers....these may not actually eat the epoxy but they can discolour or cloud it depending on the nastiness and the dwell time on the surface. A splashing or en passant usage is likely fine mind you, so you do have a bit of leeway here.
The problem with coatings is they are exactly that ..."coatings"...they go over the top and act as a protective wrap so to speak and everything depends on them being monolithic and staying that way......very very tough in your situation as neither the intended usage nor the substrate itself lend themselves to long term confidence.
If it was steel and you wanted to coat it (for the same usage) even that would be tough and give me pause (and I'm in the industrial tank lining business amongst other things… I can be found in refineries, chemical plant and nuclear facilities).
But cedar, in a sink that you actually use...whoa Nelly! Lets not go there.
I would suggest that you consider a non film forming penetrating type of product that you can brutalise and not worry about, the worst case scenario being the need to clean it periodically or freshen it up with a bit more of (easily applied) whatever it was that you used in the first place.
Nothing to delminate, no film to fall off!
Woo hoo…..the true path to great success may be in sight!
But….first of all....you MUST address the "cracking and splitting issue".
Minimally that requires doing "the selected treatment" really thoroughly on all sides of the wood including the underside and drain hole etc....(thats what "all sides means..eh!)
Either you can do that with a penetrant like CPES, Pentacryl/Wood Juice, KwikPoly or Timbertect from
http://www.conservationchemicals.co.uk/pages/aboutccc.html (who's website is worthless...so phone them).
You chose.
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Or (actually “and/or"…read on) you can use a surface penetrant type oil, ranging from polymerised tung oil (the polymerised version dries way quicker).
Tung oil was used by the Chinese 2000 years ago to keep their ships dry when they had a navy, Waterlox (a well respected tongue oil variant) or a higher tech magic oil version such as Ligna Supra (which has …wait for it..... food grade approval from Canada).
You may say "why don't I use a deep penetrant like the first paragraph and then apply something from the second paragraph.”
Well, maybe thats a good idea and the way to go......I just don't know how any of the pararaph 2 products like going on to something other than wood. The tung oil/waterlox approach should be fine because you can put that on anything including your geese's feet and it will stick. Ligna Supra …I have no data…ask them....but my son in law uses it on wooden platters in his restaurant which are super hot washed and sanitized several times day and he says it works better than anything else he has tried on the platters (and thats under commercial usage conditions).
I would suggest that you rinse the sink after each usage and give it a cursory drying (standing water is the great enemy).
Touch it up now and again as required.....and if it does crack (again, first consider slicing up you block and gluing it back together) then you can dry out the damp in the crack with a hairdryer and fill it with a bit of something like thickened epoxy and prayer.
Regardless of what product or products you decide to use get in touch with the manufacturer and see what they have to say.
I can tell you right now that NONE of them will like you very much, all will be nervous and very conservative and hedging their bets as your intended usage is unusual and extreme and they will quiver with trepidation….but if you are nice and assure then that you understand its weird and isn’t recommended and you certainly have no intention of holding anything against them….but isn’t it an interesting problem…and what do they think….you may get some good pointers.
I sent you a PM with a bunch of links to such products and you can ruminate upon the matter at length.
Hope this helps.
best regards
Julian.
and....post a picture when victory is achieved.