I just watched again with sound this time. The video helped visualize not only possible issues but also how and why you use it the way you do. Here are my main takeaways.
1. It is used as table saw outfeed so fast and accurate on and off is required.
2. Fence needs to extend under the track
3. Maintain Incra fence if possible
4. beef up or swap festool track hinge for RAD hinge or slop stop
5. Eliminate as much deflection as possible everywhere only then can you focus on square.
#1. The 3d brackets are nice in theory but since they have both unacceptable deflection issues and could be made easier to remove and install I think a totally new and better way to attach the fence is required. I notice it looks like there is slots in the bottom of the fence. Can a anchor dog be attached in the slot and then be placed in a 20mm hole? We need to not only locate the rail squarely each time but also accurately each time left-right so the scale isnt off and maintains repeatability.
#2. This makes a huge difference in cut stability. You are going to lose some length of the fence so keep that in mind not sure if you use the full length now. I dont have a band saw so I just used a aluminum blade in my miter saw and adjusted my depth stop to leave about 1/2" just under actually but you will want to look at the end of the incra fence to make sure you are leaving enough aluminum behind to maintain some structural integrity as Im not familiar with it. Just under 1/2" seems like the sweet spot as the other posted mentioned strong enough to maintain rigidity and thin enough to handle most cutting tasks and if need you can always pack up with some scrap if needed for cutting really thin sheets. Make a bunch of cuts in the extrusion so it looks like you are making a heat sink. Then bend the fins back and forth to break them off and clean up with a grinder and file. If you noticed I used a wider piece of 8020 for this to help aid in maintaining a strong straight one piece design even after notching the 8020 You dont really need a high fence shorter and wider is better and I used the heavy wall for this reason as well.
#3. I do understand your vision problems and how the incra track helps. So, I get keeping it if possible. However I did like being able to attach a
Joining plate to the top of the 8020 for doing repeatable cuts like a flip stop. So its not the end of the world if you have to ditch the incra. Maybe you could repurpose it to the miter saw if you do.
#4. I couldnt tell from the video how much of an issue the festtol tack hinge is causing. I only know from hearing from others its not greatest and has some sloppiness problems. Im pretty sure the right angle design one is better. No matter which you choose you need to make sure that it is raising and lowering 90° to the table if it isnt then the fence will be out of square depending on height. I had guides on both sides of the bracket so when I did move it up and down there was no side to side movement and stayed square.
#5. Have you considered selling the MFT and possibly going to a bigger MFT type table? Instead of fighting the current system. You should be able to build something that spans over the top of your current 8020 cart which is real nice BTW. but Im thinking bigger so you can have more flexibility on a fence system without losing any cross cut capacity. In addition to more rigidity and ability to cut full sheets on a bench instead of the floor

It doesnt have to be a full 4x8 since you seem to have some space limitations. Im thinking max out the size that you can comfortably in the space you have then if needed make a folding MFT to help a family member check out the chestnut folding mft design. They fold up pretty compact and look like a nice option or keep the MFT3 as an additional support but I dont know about the height difference between the table saw and MFT3 with the chestnut type you can make it whatever height you want.
edit: just watched again looks like the cart is on castors so bigger MFT bench that is self supporting and the 8020 cart can simply roll under it. Id slap a MFT type top on it to for an extra assembly table. So when needed you can roll it out from under and do some glue ups or clamping on it.