Matthew Schenker said:
The key thing is this: as long as we're discussing the subject, and the facts, rather than the people who hold various beliefs, most of the time we'll be fine.
But that's probably where most of the problems will lie. In most discussions it's hard to keep opinions and personal beliefs out, because it is those that motivate someone to post in the first place. Since our opinions are mostly based on our own personal experiences, it would be odd indeed if we all held the same ones. In a forum where some members have little or no self control in the way they express their opinions, things often are said that shouldn't be. But in forum where members are too careful about expressing their opinions, things are often NOT said that should be. Personally I'd rather take a chance on the first option.
I'm still trying to figure out the culture of this forum:
In a thread that is clearly entitled "Sales Tax" there are complaints about some expressions of politics, but the big complaint seems to be that it has too little to do with Festool products. Yet the title is easy to spot, so the thread is easy to avoid for those that don't want to waste time on it.
In a thread entitled "Perfect Limey food" there is not one mention of Festool, but no one complains about that. Only few members participated, so I must assume that most avoided it because of the title. As for me, I saw it as a great way to better understand some of the culture of those members that live in a different place.
A while back, a new member landed here who clearly had no good intentions toward this forum. But, for weeks he was given every benefit of the doubt by most members, who seemed to believe that he might change his ways at some point. He was welcomed to the forum, even though he never posted anything but insults, and showed no concern about the welfare of forum.
On the other hand, in a thread where some members expressed their reservations about the motives of the original poster (believing it may be only an attempt at marketing himself) far more members quickly and strongly attacked these members for it. And yet the original "complainers" clearly had ONLY the welfare of the forum in mind (I know I did). Personally, I feel that expressing my own frank opinion in that thread cost me many potential friends here. I am now very careful about expressing an opinion on any subject.
If the culture of a forum becomes one of anger and complaints every time someone says something that others may not agree with, or approve of, it may remain very orderly and polite, but a lot of interesting and potentially useful points of view may never be heard. It's nice to have a forum full of knowedgeable and experienced members who know how to express themselves, and this one certainly has plenty of that. But, thicker skins and a little more tolerance could do a lot to add to the interest. Just go back and look at the threads that drew the most viewers.
John