The Bosch 4100 is the winner. With all of the woodworking stores here plus several Lowes and Home Depot I was able to compare a bunch of DeWalt saws, the Bosch 4100 and the SawStop jobsite as well as contractor saws. DeWalt has that slick fence, but I could not find a single one that had a flat top. Every Bosch saw i checked had not only a flat top, but each was also setup spot on for miter slots to blade, miter gauge perpendicular to blade, and fence parallel to blade. The same can be said for the SawStop saws. The Bosch saw came with a stand that when it was collapsed and laid on the ground, put the saw at the perfect height for me to work with it. If ~ 10 display models from DeWalt do not have flat tops, I'm not about to put money on them to have a flat top should I purchase one of their products. I skipped the SawStop because I just cannot talk myself into dropping at least twice as much on them. So I printed out a 25% off coupon Harbor Freight emailed me just before I made my decision and picked up a Bosch 4100 from Lowes. I know Peachtree Woodworking sells Bosch products including the 4100 saw, but they won't accept Harbor Freight coupons plus I've had a hard time buying from them since I spent some time talking with David Keller on his dovetail jig vs Peachtree and their dovetail wiz.
After I unboxed the saw I found the top to be flat as well as the setup to be spot on. I was quite impressed. I've had to make no adjustments to the fence, miter gauge, table, or trunnion. I can't say the same for my Grizzly. Assembling the stand was quite entertaining, but I'm still getting used to doing things at a much slower pace. I've been working on building a base set of jigs I make for my saws then will build one of my custom MFT...with a thanks to Peter Parfitt for the tools to make a super accurate hole pattern and another thanks to TSO Products for selling his stuff on this side of the ocean plus their other super helpful tools.
I am looking into the Jessem guides, but have not made a decision on them just yet as I'm still seeing how they would merge/assist with my work flow.
Thanks to those who contributed ideas and suggestions.
If you're interested, my therapy has progressed to using a walker which I've taken up pretty well. So well in fact that I no longer use the parallel bars to stand or walk and I've been walking some at home with the walker.