WarnerConstCo. said:
Tinker said:
Holzhacker said:
Congratulations! That's an awesome move.
Took me way too long to stop being a contractor. Glad when I finally did it and don't regret it one bit. Makes life so much easier.
Your family will likely get sick of seeing you around so much. [big grin]
Good luck with the new shop.
markus
I am pretty sure his kids will find an interest in what he is doing. That can be a big plus, not only for Darcy, but his kids as well. I heartily approve.
Tinker
They already do spend a lot of time in my shop with me and going to auctions.
I get them ready for school and pick them up from their after school activities.
It was one of the reasons for starting a shop in my 1400 sqft garage.
I am out of room an out of patience for on site remodeling work.
Time for a change.
@ WarnerConstCo.
Darcey, i am sure you totally realize the value of letting your children play/work/observe or whatever they do within your work area. i guess this post is more for any other parent who has kids who are interested in their parents work. I know first hand and both of my kids were never chased off of any of my jobs. if the job was dangerous, i explained and showed them the dangers involved. the explanations and demonstrations were very definitely back up with very strict discipline.
Up until I was 8 or 9 years old, even tho i was very interested, i was never allowed in my father's workshop, especially while he was working. i was somewhat of an unruly, let's put that as
VERY unrulykid. A small part of that may or may not have been because i could not be with my dad at anytime while he was in his shop. I had a lot of other issues that we need not go into on this site, but eventually, Mom and Dad decided enough was enough and my brother and i got shipped off to stay with my dad's cousins (henceforth I'll refer to as aunt and uncle. It's easier to explain) we were supposed to stay there for a couple of weeks, but ended up staying 6 years. It was the best thing that ever happened to me until I met my wife. almost immediately, i was not only allowed to go into the barn at milking time, but I was allowed out in the fields with the men and even helping in anyway i could with any of the chores out in that part of the world. that all was heaven to me. My brother was not so excited; but the things i learned out in the fields, in the woods, in the barn, in the streams (he taught me how to fish), on the trail of deer and other wild game and so many other parts of his world have lasted me all the rest of my life.
Eventually, I even got to work with my dad in his shop and on paying projects, but as a self employed contractor. that never would have happened had it not been for the responsibilities i learned as my uncle's "shadow". shadow was actually my nickname by some who had noticed how close the two of us had become. As a result of my own experiences with being allowed to follow my interest and to be allowed to actually pitch in and "help", I have never chased my own kids off of any job. My son and i are sometimes partners in some projects. Our daughter is somewhat involved with construction as she lines up and organizes various contractors to make additions or repairs on houses she is trying to sell. She is one of the top realtors in her area with several prestigious awards. My son is constantly upgrading his own excavating business. When he brings a larger toy into his business, i now think of Darcey Warner and some of the monster machines he keeps showing us. Had i not been sent off to my uncle's farm and had I continued to have been sent packing every time i got in the way, (and i did often get in the way, but when it did happen, I was not sent away, i was just presented with a new responsibility) i don't think i would ever have straightened myself out.
Our grandson has been working with his father,as well as with me, for as long as he showed any interest. He was operating a humongeous LinkBelt excavator (needs WIDE LOAD sign warnings whenever transported on highways)by the time he was 9 or 10. Kids don't get into trouble when they learn how to work, and work safely, but more importantly, they don't get into trouble when allowed access to the world of adult parents and learn about responsibilities first hand.
Do either of your children show an interest in getting their hands, or minds, into what you do? do you show them how to do things or how to operate any of your toys? I like to pull your leg sometimes about those monster machines you bring home and actually renovate. i actually approve of what your do with those monsters. I hope you are somehow teaching your kids about those tools and machines, especially if they are the least bit interested.
Just the fact you let them into your shop is a great big plus to me on your account. i ask the question, but i am pretty sure i know the answers.

Tinker