leer
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GOT8SPD said:leer said:...our youngest daughter just got engaged, and the wedding is planned for July. I am already writing big checks for that event. [eek]
Not sure what ethnicity you are, but I would like to be apart of your family if you're paying for weddings.
I'm not getting married till 2016, but next year, the planning starts, and in my culture (Vietnamese background), the guy pays for everything and it blows! Thank god my girlfriend is low maintenance and as said earlier, she got me a Festool T18 for our anniversary. I'm hopefully going to seal the deal for $30,000. Her higher maintenance older sister got married 2 years ago and the wedding cost $85,000. What a sucker. [big grin]
I think the Vietnamese tradition is indeed a good one! Our oldest daughter is married, but she was quite frugal (and still is). Total cost was about $5K. Younger daughter has more expensive tastes, but she knows she cannot go wild. Maybe booking that Rhine River cruise was good way to set expectations that we would have to be a little tighter on budgets. I'm guessing $15K or so. I cannot imagine spending $85K on a wedding!