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I've performed, sold, staffed, and sold/performed a lot of services for many years and lots of cultures.
Just about every comment I've seen in this thread so far is spot on... For certain situations.
I could be all wet but my view is that each situation is different and you get better at reading the customer(s) as you gain experience. I also think that there are certain rules/axioms that are appropriate when dealing with customers or potential customers. I would suggest that they are pretty universal across most cultures...
I think every situation is different but they all have many similarities...
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If you have to walk away because you can't get your prospect to see or admit value, you should take a break and reevaluate the entire negotiation. If possible, enlist the help of someone whose advice you respect to aid in the reevaluation.
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There are many ways to look at things but most people I see on this forum appear to be in service roles. If you make your living on service as I have for a long time, you have to know what you're worth and know how to express that. Most of the craftsmen or artisans here are exceptional and deserve serious recognition. They should not be in competition with some casual pretender.
'Sorry for the rant, that's just my two cents.
Tom
Just about every comment I've seen in this thread so far is spot on... For certain situations.
I could be all wet but my view is that each situation is different and you get better at reading the customer(s) as you gain experience. I also think that there are certain rules/axioms that are appropriate when dealing with customers or potential customers. I would suggest that they are pretty universal across most cultures...
- Be polite
- Be fair
- Be firm
- DON'T ARGUE!!!!
- Be prepared to walk away
- Allow negotiation but stand your ground where it matters
I think every situation is different but they all have many similarities...
- Something for nothing is deemed to have no value (at least, monetarily)
- Value is deeper than is often obvious
- If you can't justify the value, maybe the value doesn't exist
- If you're reticent to justify the value, you might think it doesn't exist
- Everyone wants a deal
- The best deal can be justified with quality
- If the customer/(potential customer) can't see the value or won't admit they see it, and you know how to explain it, WALK AWAY! They are likely looking to take advantage of you.
EDIT
If you have to walk away because you can't get your prospect to see or admit value, you should take a break and reevaluate the entire negotiation. If possible, enlist the help of someone whose advice you respect to aid in the reevaluation.
END EDIT
There are many ways to look at things but most people I see on this forum appear to be in service roles. If you make your living on service as I have for a long time, you have to know what you're worth and know how to express that. Most of the craftsmen or artisans here are exceptional and deserve serious recognition. They should not be in competition with some casual pretender.
'Sorry for the rant, that's just my two cents.
Tom