Keep in mind that if you're trying to economize that a non-Fetsool vac can be coupled with its tools -- you just won't have the automatic start feature and ability to control suction with most of the alternatives. But I worked for a while with a Ridgid shop vac and found it a decent combo. If you get a Festool sander though, then the Festool vac makes a lot more sense.
If you're not getting a table saw, then you should probably get an MFT, especially if you don't want to get into the hassle of building a custom bench. Once you have the MFT you will then have the capacity to do precision guided routing, which is freaking awesome. The 1400 is my vote, since it gives you the capacity to use 1/2" bits, which the 1010 doesn't. If the Bosch has enough power, why not make it into a dedicated table router?
Domino may be essential depending upon your project lists, particularly if you're going to be making tables, but maybe you want to ease into it and start doing projects with combo of biscuit joinery and pocket holes, or using router for making mortise and tenons. Domino is not cheap, particularly since you will likely buy the set and the tenon assortment, though once you have it you can use it for almost anything.