Skids, you're finding why there are so many threads on this very subject, it's not as straight forwards as it might seem at first glance. For those members that have been around the forum for a while you can disregard the following lengthy post since you've probably already seen me or others hold forth on this topic before.
The ETS125 seems to be a love or hate kind of tool. Me, I love it, it's probably my most used sander. I feel like it is misunderstood. I completely agree it is not the most aggressive sander, and it is best suited as a finish sander. However, in my opinion, sanding bare wood very easily falls into the capabilities of the ETS125. I find the 125 so easy to handle and gives me perfect results that I'll reach for it first. The ironic thing is there are plenty of people who's experiences are the opposite when it comes to the handling and results of the 125.
The learning curve for the 125 was very short for me. The first time I used the 125 it got a full day's use. This did three things for me. First, I was able to quickly figure out the sweet spot with the suction for the vac/speed of the sander. Second, it got the sander through the break-in period on the first outing. The third thing I was able to get a pretty good understand of its capabilities. I think the haters never get through these three things. BTW, these three principals apply to the other two small sanders as well, the RTS and DTS.
So, if you find your new RTS, DTS or ETS sander hard to handle (jumping around) try these things.
-Learn how to set the suction on the vac to work in conjunction with the sander, not fighting it. There is a sweet spot you need to find. (Also, my experience with these small sander, generally speaking, is they work best at full speed, 6 on the dial). Sure, there are exceptions to this rule, but for the sake of learning how these puppies work, stay at full speed. If you happen to have one of the older Festool vacs, CT22/33 or an older mini/midi try the suction somewhere around 1/3-1/4 suction, the newer CT26/36/48 vacs start closer to all to the way down, and fine tune from there. The goal is to turn down the vac enough so the sander isn't being sucked down to the work piece, but up enough to get good dust collection. If you listen closely you can hear the sander's motor strain slightly when the vac is up too high. To get an idea what I'm talking about try setting the suction to 1/2 or so, then slowly turn the suction down until you hear the sound of the sander's motor change. When you hear that change you're getting close. There are variables like the grit of paper and how full the vac filter bag is that change constantly, so you may not figure it all out right away.
-The break-in period should also be discussed. The small sanders will run a little better after 6-8 hours of use. During the break-in period the brushes are seating (wearing to perfectly fit the armature). Once the brushes are seated the motor/sander will get its full power. The other thing that happens during the break-in is the sanding brake is breaking-in. The sanding brake, that rubber skirt looking thing between the sander body and the sanding pad, helps control the speed of the sanding pad. When the brake is brand new it can slow the sanding pad down a little too much. Between the slightly slower motor and brake slowing the sanding pad the sander can sometimes be jumpy or harder to control before the break-in.
The good news it is easy to get through the break-in period without using the sander all day-just hang it up and let run. Suspend the sander so the pad isn't in contact with anything and run the sander for 6-8 hours. I'd advise you keep an eye on it just to be sure nothing is going wrong. After that you'll know any issues aren't due to break-in.
-Learning the capabilities for these sanders is harder to quantify. These are finish sanders so they aren't intended for aggressive stock removal. That said, I find they do okay with 80-60 grit paper removing finishes and for stock removal. Sure there are better options out there, however, these small sander will work if need be. They do shine in their intended finish role. They are light weight and super easy to handle all day long. As I already mentioned I generally run these sanders at full speed. Sanding between coats of finish I'll slow them down some. Bottom line, you need hands on time to learn what they will do for you.
We're lucky, Festool offers the 30 day trial to try the tools out. Don't be afraid to return a tool if its not working out. Use the 30 days! Don't buy one of these sanders and let it sit on a shelf for 30 days. Buy when you intend to use it. Buy, use, learn, and use some more. Good luck.