Hi Peter,
I started to "use" the internet when I was about 12 years old, thats when we got our first computer that could go online. I'm 29 since last Saturday and that means I have been actively online for about 17 years now.
Back in the day I mostly used IRC-based chatrooms mainly to gain information on games I was playing. A little later I signed up for the first forum, and then many more. I participated very actively, became a moderator in at least one of them and spent a lot of time on the different forums. I always felt that it helped me understand and learn a lot about many different topics. Also I can say that I made real friends along the way in a lot of different countries, some of them I have visited and met personally during more recent years. And I'm very, very thankful for that.
I joined Facebook for the first time when it was basically for students only but didn't really "get" it. I re-signed up later and did in fact find friends from all those years gone by and also made new ones. Again I was very active - posting a lot, pictures, stories out of my life. I always felt that a lot of my friends enjoyed when they read something or saw a picture - I enjoyed to read their stories and see their pictures. It was cool, basically a look over ones shoulder without the "bulk" of keeping in touch with long, boring e-mails or letters - still you'd be in touch with the flick of a finger. I have a lot of great memories on spontaneous meetings half way round the world, just because of a status update.
I was very careful in terms of privacy, what information I gave out and of course to whom - I never had 1000 people "accidentally" showing up at a party *lol*
But in more recent years my friends-list became smaller, people started to use screen names to the point where I was sometimes thinking "who the heck is this?" and for the sake of privacy stopped sharing the interesting stuff. When I opened my newsfeed at any given day I would read political rants, loose comments that were made on articles that now had thousands of comments and I wouldn't find the one my actual friend made, and other stuff - oh, and of course a lot of advertising. I too became guilty of political rants and loose comments, knowing it wouldn't change a darn thing - I decided to stop. I deleted my FB and IG accounts, my personal website and had my profiles removed from all forums that I could remember my log-in details. That was in February this year and I'm feeling good about it, slowing down my life and concentrate on other stuff, occasional e-mails to friends.
However, with it came a lot of other choices that ultimately brought me here: I want to accomplish a major home improvement project, bought my first Festool and started to do my research/homework. And since there will be questions in future I guess it couldn't hurt to sign-up and introduce myself. Since I'm not a complete newbie to tools/power-tools and home improvement I'm willing to share what I can when a question I can answer comes up - or just add my 2cents if the topic allows. In this instance a forum like the FOG is invaluable.
To answer your initial question, yes the FOG and forums in general have a crucial benefit for their members over your typical FB/IG social media stuff: they are a spring of wisdom and expertise, searchable like a library and topic based discussion trumps Facebook/Instagram-style "commenting" any day. If you spent a little time in a forum you are also able to judge comments, tips/explanation and advice based on a little research and who gave them very soon. This is much easier and more helpful than if you have to wade through hundreds of merely anonymous comments on your typical social media site/group. It also helps to establish a personal ranking, which is very useful when you get shown more than one way to accomplish any given task and need to decide which way to go.
Still there are hobbies/interests and trades where broad/mass exposure and volatility are more important than preservation and accessibility, that's where forums, forum culture sooner or later will pass by.
Kind regards,
Oliver