Matthew Schenker
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meldgaard said:hm - maybe i'm naive but why on earth should anyone want to take it out on the one who wanted to donate a very impressive, expensive and attractive gift or the one that offered to deal with the paying of the agreed 'draw-fee' ?
I don't think there is a reason to take anything out on anybody here. All parties in this situation acted with generosity, a willingness to connect, and a desire to make sure there are no problems.
As the person who runs this forum, I do have to be careful about possible legal issues. That's where my concern came from. The problem is, I was not involved in the early planning and implementation of this and so I did not know about any legal issues until this was already well underway.
nickao said:There is nothing regulating the internet at all, period. Not yet.
Actually, there are. And some things that happen from the Internet can be quite serious.
nickao said:This was ruined by the moderator he stopped this on hearsay giving us no solid concrete reason why. He wants proof he can not be hurt well that is impossible
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And yes I have an attitude and i am pissed and think I should be at this point. This has been in limbo long enough and Matthew should never had lest us start in the first place if he was going to stop it.
I've said many times that I am in no way against generous efforts by members of the forum. I appreciate such things, and have always supported it. In fact, that's what this forum is about in many ways. The "limbo" in this particular situation is no one's fault. It's just one of those unfortunate things.
I really could not have prevented you from starting in the first place because I did not know it was happening until it was announced.
nickao said:All Henrik and I were doing was something nice and now I have to feel aggravated over it? That is why many people never get involved in these things I guess. If you do not feel I should have an attitude at this point that is on you, not me. So please do not tell me settle down etc. I know exactly what I am saying and am very calm and have held my thoughts on this long enough.
It's not worth getting upset about. Again, it's just an honest situation that went off the tracks.
My suggestion would be to come up with another idea for the forum that works a different way, and put your generosity into that instead.
Thanks,
Matthew