I find Rampa inserts the best for hard woods. They are steel. Lee Valley or many other places sell them.
Not positive if all the sizes are the same OD, but in the sizes I use, they suggest 10mm pilot drill in softwoods, 10.5mm pilot drill in hardwoods.
I put a small chamfer on the hole and the flange sits below flush.
I made a small jig to ensure the insert goes in straight.
You can tell it is made of scrap, but it works. (One day I will make a nice jig)
Some of the Rampa inserts have a 3-start thread, with the idea that it is sitting on 3 points, so tends to go in straight, but I normally use the jig, to guarantee it goes in straight.
Not sure why you would want to mix insert types, but I don't see any problem with that.